Hey Little Ant

Life, from the point of view of an ant, which you are about to step on.

It is an idea like this that can help you make your child understand such complicated issues as empathy.

I have made it a personal goal to focus on morals with my two children. By using random acts of kindness, taking the time to explain and demonstrate empathy, and just taking the time, I hope to make a difference. Not in the world, per se (I am not that ambitious, or naive), but a difference in the people I add to this world. Our little ones are watching us, and I am attempting to take the time to be the example they need.

There are those teachable moments, when parenting, where you just cannot find the words. Luckily, there are others who can find them for us.

The following are some fabulous children's books that can do just that: find those words you are looking for when attempting to drive home a moral lesson. Let's face it; as parents, we need all the help we can get.

Tails are not for Pulling, by Elizabeth Verdick

This same author also has other similar behavior books that are worth a second look:

  

   Hands Are Not For Hitting, Teeth Are Not For Biting, Words Are Not For Hurting...you get the idea!

Another excellent book for the young ones comes from the author Jennifer P. Goldfinger, My Dog Lyle. The little girl that owns Lyle sees him for all the the things that make him special, instead of ordinary. A reminder that our 'quirks' are our own special traits instead.

And one of my favorites, Hey Little Ant, by Phillip Hoose. This is a parable about mercy and empathy, and asks the reader to look at life from an ant's point of view. It is a 'stop and think' story for parents and children alike.

One more book worth a second look, Kindness is Cooler, Mrs Ruler, by Margery Cuyler. This story centers around a teacher who disciplines students by having them preform acts of kindness. Its a great story and a wonderful place to get ideas for good deeds!

I hope to add to this list as I find read worthy books, and welcome any suggestions other may have.
Happy reading!